Creeped out by creepy interview techniques


Just finished reading a blog post from Boss Advice about interview techniques, like anything I can take or leave some advice but this one creeped me out a little. Blogs being what they are I couldn’t help but comment on this. The article basically covers ‘how to make a personal connection to the interviewer that you can later use to call them back about’, hence making yourself stand out from the competition at the job interview. Unfirtunately  some of this adviceis borderline stalker stuff and I for one would never advise that a candidate attending an interview tries it.

Making a personal connection, for example, might include;

Look around the interviewer’s office for any personal effects that might open the door to a connection. For example, if you see a photograph of a very large family gathering, you comment on it and mention that you, too come from a large family (if you do). Find something in the room that you can personally connect with, and then make a casual and sincere comment about it.

Personally I couldn’t think of anything worse, imagine yourself in the interviewer’s shoes for a minute and think about what is about to come out of the candidate’s mouth. Hmmm, next thing you know he’s invited himself along to the families annual BBQ get together because he “just loves burnt sausages and good old family get togethers”. Chances are the interview will be held in the most impersonal interview room with just a plain old desk and two chairs, leaving the candidate only the interviewer’s attire to comment on. Yes, surely the job will be yours if you make that personal comment about isn’t it great that 70′s fashion is making a comeback and that kipper tie is way out there Mr Interviewer.

One particular thing I think most interviewer’s are not keen on is the call from the keen over eager candidate who made a “personal connection” with them during the interview:

To continue the fishing analogy, don’t forget to “reel in” the bait you left, and actually follow through on the offer you made. The purpose of leaving the bait was so that you would have a valid excuse for contacting your interviewer again, which further cements you in his or her mind. Send the materials you promised.

Gosh, don’t reel in the “bait”, please leave the interview with self respect in place, knowing that you presented yourself in a professional engaging manner without the need for gimmicks that could have restraining orders placed on you. And don’t call the interviewer unless they have called you first, gimmicks never got anyone the job – it ain’t big and it definitely ain’t clever.

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Director of Arras People, the programme and project management recruitment specialists. You can find out more about Arras People and follow me on Twitter